ARTICLE 211
By Edwin C Nesortado
The father and the mother shall jointly exercise parental authority over the persons of their common children. In case of disagreement, the father’s decision shall prevail, unless there is a judicial order to the contrary.
Children shall always observe respect and reverence towards their parents and are obliged to obey them as long as the children are under parental authority. (172, Presidential Decree No. 603)
JOINT PARENTAL AUTHORITY
The parents are equally bound to ensure the wholesome upbringing of the children. This precept is in accordance with the natural order of life . A father and a mother are not expected to have a compartmentalized concern over their children or in their parental love be split up to serve different purposes.
PREFERENTIAL CHOICE OF THE FATHER
Both the father and the mother should exercise joint parental authority over their common children. However, in case of conflict between the parents, the father’s decision prevails as long as it is for the best interest of their children.
This preferential paternal right however does not mean that the mother’s decision is not for their children’s best interest. If both of the parent’s decision has merit and to further avoid such of becoming void to the detriment of their children, the decision of the father as the head of the family is given preference.
The law is designed to provide a mechanism by which the conflicts within the family will be resolved within the family. If the decision of the father is in question where the mother and their children wanted to change it, the court has the authority to alter such decision.
DUTIES OF CHILDREN
This article provides that the children shall always observe respect and reverence toward their parents and are obliged to obey them as long as the children are under parental authority. Article 357 of the 1950 Civil Code still effectively provides that every child shall:
1.Obey and honor their parents or guardians;
2.Respect their grandparents, old relatives and other persons holding substitute parental authority;
3. Exert their utmost for their education and training;
4.Cooperate with the family in all matters that make for the good of the same.
5.Other responsibilities of the children are enumerated under the Child and Youth Welfare Code, P.D. No.603 (Article 4)as amended.
CASE DIGEST
G.R. No. 116773. January 16, 1997]
TERESITA SAGALA-ESLAO, petitioner,
- vs.
COURT OF APPEALS and MARIA PAZ CORDERO-OUYE, respondents.
TORRES, JR., J.:
FACTS:
Maria Paz entrusted custody of her youngest child Angelica to her grieving mother-in-law when her husband Reynaldo Eslao died. She then returned to her mother’s house with Leslie. Years later, Maria Paz got married to a Japanese-American and live with him in the US. After this she returned to the Philippines to be reunited with her children and bring them to the US. She then informed Teresita about her desire to take custody of Angelica her new husband’s willingness to adopt her children. Teresita refused, and accused Maria of having abandoned Angelica when she was 10 days old. Maria instituted an action against Teresita over the return of the custody of Angelica to her. After the trial on the merits, the trial court granted the petition. CA affirmed in the full decision of the trial court.
ISSUE:
Whether or not Teresita Sagala-Eslao has the right over the custody of Angelica
RULING:
No. The right of parents to the custody of their minor children is one of the natural rights incident to parenthood, a right supported by law and sound public policy. The right is an inherent one, which is not created by the state or decisions of the courts, but derives from the nature of the parental relationship.
Thus, when Maria entrusted the custody of Angelica to Teresita, what she gave to her mother-in-law was merely temporary custody and it did not constitute abandonment or renunciation of parental authority. The law allows a waiver of parental authority only in cases of adoption, guardianship and surrender to a children’s home or an orphan institution.
QUESTION:
What is the only way to alter the father’s decision is case the mother and their children do not conform with the same?
Answer:
The latter may bring the said issue to the court of justice.